How to "be a man" and "do the right thing"

Also how to be a woman. Here are a few messages recommended by CBMW.org (Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood)

Item Title	Author
19 Objections to Complementarianism	J. Ligon Duncan III
Affirming the Goodness of Manhood and Womanhood in All of Life	John Piper
Biblical Manhood and Womanhood: The Big Picture	J. Ligon Duncan III
Christ's Example (1 Corinthians 11:2-16)	J. Ligon Duncan III
God's High Calling for Women Part 1	John MacArthur
God's High Calling for Women Part 2	John MacArthur
God's Pattern for Husbands Part 1	John MacArthur
God's Pattern for Husbands Part 2	John MacArthur
God's Pattern for Wives Part 1	John MacArthur
God's Pattern for Wives Part 2	John MacArthur
How These Biblical Definitions of Manhood and Womanhood Apply in the Home and the Church	J. Ligon Duncan III
Husbands Who Love Like Christ and the Wives Who Submit to Them	John Piper
Jesus, Women, and Men	John Piper
Male and Female He Created Them in the Image of God	John Piper
Male Authority and Female Equality in Light of Galatians 3:28	J. Ligon Duncan III
Male Authority and Female Equality: In the beginning (Genesis 1-3)	J. Ligon Duncan III
Manhood and Womanhood Before Sin	John Piper
Manhood and Womanhood Conflict and Confusion After the Fall	John Piper
Manhood, Womanhood and the Freedom to Minister	John Piper
Modern Stumbling Blocks to Gender Roles	J. Ligon Duncan III
Silent in the Church: Why Can’t Women Preach?	J. Ligon Duncan III
The "S"ubmission Word	J. Ligon Duncan III
The Character of a Healthy Church Part 2	John MacArthur
The Character of a Healthy Church Part 3	John MacArthur
The Character of a Healthy Church Part 4	John MacArthur
The Gender Neutral Bible Controversy	J. Ligon Duncan III
Women in the Church and Silence in the Church	J. Ligon Duncan III

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